Most resources prepare patients for the physical pain, physical therapy and really embrace the “doing” following elective surgeries. Patients often study the surgery, anticipated outcomes, short and long-term goals, medications, tools, and timelines. They anticipate control and only prepare for the physical, they are not prepared for the lack of control, lost sleep and the “messy emotional” impact.
I make a point to take on the emotional, psychological and social issues that often erupt for patients during elective procedures. They present from the depths of our souls when we are least prepared nor able to cope with them effectively. My patients often hide or feel ashamed to have them. However, acknowledging the “elephant in the room”, addressing concerns, and through providing reassurance, I have witnessed patients take back their power and no longer feel victim to the circumstances and pain. Thousands of my patients pivot into a place of wellbeing, reassurance, and hope. They often leave my office feeling much better than when they arrived.